Monday, January 26, 2009

How to Get Her Back

By Sara Summers

You can get a girl back even if it is a difficult thing to do because you always worry that if you make one wrong move, you will lose her forever.

However, usually what you feel is the right thing to do is actually not the right thing to do. Many times we should follow the "counterintuitive path". So, when you feel like calling her trying to win her back, stop yourself. That is the right time when you should stay cool. Also, when you feel like pouring all your feelings out, that is the time when you should just stop thinking about her and not talk about her either.

There are counterintuitive techniques that you can use. These counterintuitive techniques that you will discover now may be new to you, and might seem inappropriate and may feel wrong, but in fact, these techniques have been proven every time to be really effective in the most complicated situations.

The first technique is that you must agree and completely accept the fact that your girl has broken up with you. It is very difficult to do but you have to do it to win a girl back.

You should understand why you need to accept the breakup, and how it can help you get back together and win a girl back. The main reason is that, you should give her time to respect and miss you again. Of course, she may be really angry at you right now.

The second technique is that you must cut off all communication. You are surprised? Trust me, this technique actually really works! In fact, it even helps you to accept the breakup. It will also show her that you are really serious about breaking up. Stopping all communication allows her to miss you and get over the reasons for breaking up. Giving some space will also be good for your mental health as well, and give you time to think clearly. But most importantly, it sets you up for the next technique on Winning a girl back.

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