It's ok if you want to get back with your ex. I think that we have all been in a relationship or two that has gone sour. I can give you some tips on what has worked for me and countless others.
The reason I know these tips is because I've had my heart stomped on a time or two. I tried all kinds of methods to get my ex back and know what works. Here are 3 great tips to get you started.
One of the first things you are going to have to do may be a little hard. You are going to have to get free of every part of the garbage up in your brain. I know that you are broken hearted, but you must have a clear mind before you try to figure out what you are doing.
Go shopping, go to the movies or just get out of the house! Anything it takes to clear your head, you must do it before moving on.
After you have your mind cleared, you need to sit down and decide all the things that went wrong. Do not sit there and say that you were the perfect mate, because it takes two to make and break a relationship.
Take this time and figure out what you would have done differently. Were there mistakes you made that you can see now that maybe you could not then? Can you honestly say that you know why the break up even took place?
Now that you have taken the time to see what caused your relationship to fail, it's time to back aways from your ex. Make sure you understand that they are going through a difficult emotional time as well. They do not want or need you texting or calling every 5 minutes. Cut off contacting your ex for about 2 weeks.
Once you have followed the steps above, it's time to make contact with your ex. Go ahead and call them and let them know that there are a few things you would like to discuss. Make sure they know that this is just a chance to talk and not a date. If you know what to say at this meeting, your ex will be on their way home with you when you decide to end the meeting.
The reason I know these tips is because I've had my heart stomped on a time or two. I tried all kinds of methods to get my ex back and know what works. Here are 3 great tips to get you started.
One of the first things you are going to have to do may be a little hard. You are going to have to get free of every part of the garbage up in your brain. I know that you are broken hearted, but you must have a clear mind before you try to figure out what you are doing.
Go shopping, go to the movies or just get out of the house! Anything it takes to clear your head, you must do it before moving on.
After you have your mind cleared, you need to sit down and decide all the things that went wrong. Do not sit there and say that you were the perfect mate, because it takes two to make and break a relationship.
Take this time and figure out what you would have done differently. Were there mistakes you made that you can see now that maybe you could not then? Can you honestly say that you know why the break up even took place?
Now that you have taken the time to see what caused your relationship to fail, it's time to back aways from your ex. Make sure you understand that they are going through a difficult emotional time as well. They do not want or need you texting or calling every 5 minutes. Cut off contacting your ex for about 2 weeks.
Once you have followed the steps above, it's time to make contact with your ex. Go ahead and call them and let them know that there are a few things you would like to discuss. Make sure they know that this is just a chance to talk and not a date. If you know what to say at this meeting, your ex will be on their way home with you when you decide to end the meeting.
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