When text messaging keep in mind that, just like in face to face encounters with a woman, there are rules to know and follow.
Rule 1: SMS is not the answer to escape a phone call
Some guys think texting is safer than giving a girl a real call. It makes sense, but do not fall in that category. When you get a phone number, the next thing to do is figure out when you can both meet again. You will find more success making plans over the phone with your voice than with letters and emoticons.
If you text because you're scared to talk to her, how will you ever speak to her in person?
Rule 2: Never expect replies of validation
Value seeking texts can be things like, "What are you doing?" or "Can i hang with you and your friends?" This kind of texting comes off very needy, turn women off, and do not showcase your personality at all.
Here are some sample texts sent that have been proven to be much more effective...
"Your twin just walked past me wearing a purple sparkle fanny pack"
"Hi dork, I bet you're operating at 100% dorkiness today ;) "
Rule 3: Abstain from over texting
You've got a huge kindergarten crush on her, but don't show too much interest too fast or you will scare her off. Text one time and if she responds, do the same. However, if there is no response, wait for the next day before contacting her.
Try to place some space between text responses. Keep in mind, non-neediness means sexy because she will see you are in demand and have other romantic options.
If in doubt, follow her lead. If she texts instantly, do the same, but if she text after 15 minutes, then do the same.
Bonus Texting Tool: Use the text to familiarize her
Once you have her number, text her as soon as you can especially if she is standing beside you. The situation is hilarious in itself plus give yourself triple points if it's an inside joke or funny text. Here are some...
"You have my number now but you are only allowed to call me once per day."
"Who is that sexy man you just gave your number to?"
When you text her and she saves your phone number, you can be sure she has interest in you. More significant is that when you call her, your name will pop up on caller id and she will be more inclined to take your call with a smile.
Rule 1: SMS is not the answer to escape a phone call
Some guys think texting is safer than giving a girl a real call. It makes sense, but do not fall in that category. When you get a phone number, the next thing to do is figure out when you can both meet again. You will find more success making plans over the phone with your voice than with letters and emoticons.
If you text because you're scared to talk to her, how will you ever speak to her in person?
Rule 2: Never expect replies of validation
Value seeking texts can be things like, "What are you doing?" or "Can i hang with you and your friends?" This kind of texting comes off very needy, turn women off, and do not showcase your personality at all.
Here are some sample texts sent that have been proven to be much more effective...
"Your twin just walked past me wearing a purple sparkle fanny pack"
"Hi dork, I bet you're operating at 100% dorkiness today ;) "
Rule 3: Abstain from over texting
You've got a huge kindergarten crush on her, but don't show too much interest too fast or you will scare her off. Text one time and if she responds, do the same. However, if there is no response, wait for the next day before contacting her.
Try to place some space between text responses. Keep in mind, non-neediness means sexy because she will see you are in demand and have other romantic options.
If in doubt, follow her lead. If she texts instantly, do the same, but if she text after 15 minutes, then do the same.
Bonus Texting Tool: Use the text to familiarize her
Once you have her number, text her as soon as you can especially if she is standing beside you. The situation is hilarious in itself plus give yourself triple points if it's an inside joke or funny text. Here are some...
"You have my number now but you are only allowed to call me once per day."
"Who is that sexy man you just gave your number to?"
When you text her and she saves your phone number, you can be sure she has interest in you. More significant is that when you call her, your name will pop up on caller id and she will be more inclined to take your call with a smile.
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