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For those of you that have been following my blog, I posted an article of the typical scammer. I talked a little bit about what to look for when talking to them and finally I spoke about a scammer's objective and goals. If you missed this informative article, you can still read it on my blog.<br />
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In this article I am going to talk about what you can do to ensure that your foreign friend, girlfriend or fiance is not a scammer. There are a few very inexpensive ways to bring a little comfort to your heart. <br />
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Is the girl that you are talking to real? Unfortunately if you are trying to start a relationship with someone in another country, then this is going to be part of the dating experience. Take what I am saying seriously and ensure you really know the girl.<br />
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There are a lot stories all over the internet about scammers and how they take advantage of men looking for girlfriends and wives from abroad. Unfortunately none of these stories ever turn out with a happy ending. Most turn out with men losing large sums of money, their identity or getting physically hurt or even killed. <br />
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The first thing you want to do is use a recommended and reputable secure website to do your searches. Do a Google search for Elena's Models or Kiev Connections. I have personally worked with both owners and they are dedicated to ensuring a scam free, legitimate website. Both websites have women that are looking for long lasting relationships with men just like you.<br />
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If you do not want to pay for the service charge of a dating site, you can go at it alone. Now if you go about it on your own, you are going to want to know this about your fiance, girlfriend or friend. You will need to know her mobile number. Even the poorest person has a mobile phone in Europe and former Russian Republics. The women that I talked to all had mobile numbers and were more than happy to have me call them. If the girl that I was talking to told me she did not have a mobile number, then 100% of the time she turned out to be a scammer.<br />
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You will want to ask for her home address so you can send her gifts. If she says no, then wait at least a month and then ask again. Sometimes girls are shy to give out their mailing addresses. Yet after a month if she is still saying no, then there might be something wrong.<br />
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Now if you have an address for the girl you are talking to, the best way to know if she is real is to have the flower agency take a picture of her receiving the flowers. All flower agencies that do business in foreign countries will offer this service. The extra charge is usually $5.00 to $10.00 USD. I have also seen flower agencies that will take a video of her receiving your flowers for about $20.00 USD. I know of a few guys that were really disappointed in what they saw in these pictures. Some girls did not match their photos at all. It can be a big disappointment, so better to know up front.<br />
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Lastly if you have doubts about your girl, then send an investigator out to take a look for you. You can find these investigators online. Some are expensive, but they will investigate addresses, phone numbers and even take pictures of your fiance, girlfriend or friend for you. They will let you know 100 percent if she is real or not. <br />
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If you are still having doubts and are planning to travel to meet her, you can hire a bodyguard. I know business men that hire these bodyguards, fees are negotiable. Personally if I had this many doubts about my fiance, I would chose to end the relationship and start over again. I was very relaxed the first time I met my fiance and had no doubts about her.<br />
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It all comes down to going with your gut feeling. I know it can be hard to question the person in which you are trying to build a relationship. In the end you will be happier and much more confident in the relationship if you remove all doubts up front.</div><div class='uawresource'><div style='font-style:italic;' class='uawabout'><br />
About the Author:<br />
</div><div class='uawlinks'>Art Saborio is a Fiance Visa Specialist. His very informative Do it yourself step by step method to <a href="http://www.k1visaexperts.com">K1 Visa Success</a> is now available on his site. Also don't miss out on his blog, with infomation on the "critical ins and outs" of meeting your <a href="http://www.k1visaexperts.com/blog">Foreign Fiance</a> </div><br />
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